Today's gripe is about drama and bitchassness!
so it is the new year. many are saying they are getting a fresh start and how things are going to be different. first of all, a new start can begin at any time. its just cliche and typical to start it on January 1st. if you want to make a change then do it. i'm kind of OCD about starting things on a good round number but its not really going to make that much of a difference. so if its October 13th and you are ready for a change then start it on October 13th. anyway i digress. the point i'm making is, trying to make changes on New Year's rarely are successful.
with all that said, some people and things just never change. If you are a bitch last year you are probably still going to be a bitch in the new year. if you are clueless and naive in your relationship with a guy with the reputation of being a liar, then i would guess you will still be naive in the new year! some people just don't change! i don't care how old you are, how long you've lived, what you've been through in life, what you're going through right now in your life, or any of that, you should always be thankful and grateful for what you DO have! i've been through some shit in life but i'm still living and though i LOATHE my job, at least i've got one and i feel i have the right to complain and sulk about my past i don't. my dad taught me that life goes on and life isn't far. complaining about things out of your control gets you no where.
my favorite thing is when people with money complain about anything! esspecially young people that never worked a day in their lives b/c mommy and daddy pay for everything and more than likely will until they get married then their husbands will take care of them. its pathetic. you got a brand new car at 16 that you didn't need and wrecked a week after you got it, youre in a sorority in college where you have to pay thousands of dollars to be a part of, you live in an apartment your parents are paying for you to have, and you don't have to work. what is there to complain about?
another favorite is girls complaining about boys, whether it be their boyfriends or a boy they're talking to. if you're in a relationship and you know he has a reputation of being a liar and has a shady past then when you're being told by people you trust things he may or may not be doing, you should definatly think something is up! i mean really. there is a girl i know, she's dating this guy. he's very good looking, tall, has a good job but has a reputation. his girl has been told on occation of things he has done, she's confronted him about it but his smoothtalking ways puts her at ease and she drops it. he has been playing her like a fiddle since they've been dating. they'll probably get married and he will continue to play her b/c she's just that easy to do it to.
lets talk about drama now. there seems to be an apparent age bracket that calls for constant drama in a person's life. this is a time when both guys and girls date either older or our of town b/c the dramatic girls in their own town ruin a good thing for anyone! so it appears everyone calls you a whore. people that shouldn't know these things know this b/c people talk about it so much. if you are being called a whore i would bet money i don't have that you probably have whorish tendencies! it is never in once interest to date someone for an extended period of time only to start dating someone else a few days later. i thought you were in love? *waits 5 minutes* oh wow, you've broken up with that guy now? *waits 5 more minutes* oh NOW you're talking to the guy that has the reputation of being a whore as well and that you told me less than a year ago that you hated. hahahaha, totally saw that one coming. he's lonely and you're desperately in love with him so it only makes sense. and now people are talking about you b/c of it. get over it and move on. if you want him then enjoy him, the best you can with him being so far away. the things he says to you are the same things he says to every girl he's with. trust me <3. girls in small towns are very dramatic and while its fun to read about and watch unfold on facebook, its just something else that annoys me and make me appreciate the fact that i have grown up and have a better sense of morals than most.
now brings me to bitchassness. i have to deal with bitchassness everyday! from the time i get up i deal with it with my mother. she is either stomping around the house b/c she apparently doesn't have the ability to walk lightly, slamming cabinet doors when she closes them at all, yelling at the dog or cat for whatever reason, or slamming the front door as she's leaving for work. all of this early in the mornings while i'm trying to sleep. yes i am 26 years old still living at home, rent free, but now we're both adults and there is a little thing called respect. i stay away from her as much as possible but good grief. have a little respect at 6am and be quiet! if my dad was still around she wouldn't be all loud. the best part is, is when shes trying to sleep during normal daytime hours and i wake her up! she tries to get all pissy. i don't think so.
if i'm not dealing with it at home i'm dealing with it driving to work. it takes me about 20 minutes to get from my house to my job in the next county and thats including the stoplights i hit with no traffic. its a two lane road so why in the hell do people insist on riding my ass all the way there when all they have to do is pass me???????? i can't afford to keep my gas tank full so i've got to improvise on my gas mileage techniques and that comes in the form of cruise control. the road to work is a 55 MPH highway so i set my cruise at at least 60. i'm not going any faster so if you don't like it then pass me. i can't afford a ticket and i'm not going to speed to appease your need for speed.
third dealing with bitchassness. my job. no i don't have a college degree therefore i have to resort to working crappy jobs until i'm either discovered as a model and can make good enough money that i don't have to work, i find a sugar daddy, marry rich, or get a degree and manage to find a job in my chosen field. since none of these are realistic options i'm stuck trying to find a job i enjoy so i'll stay. this means working with many i don't like. don't get me wrong, i enjoy some of the folks i work with but others not so much. not everyone is going to like everyone. i am one of those people. i'm the type of person that has no particular reason to dislike someone, i just don't like some people. everyone has annoying qualities and others have more. some of the people i work with make me want to hit them with a freshly brewed pot of coffee. lol. one thing i've learned in life is this, just b/c you are attractive doesn't give you the right to walk around like your shit don't stink. i'm impressed that some people work at all b/c they think they're so pretty but props to them! but then i learn that those same people are pretty much just working to support their habit of constantly partying. haha. i can't stand it when i'm running my ass off at my job while those same people don't do shit! standing around talking about what happened the night before or making their nightly plans. um there is food to be ran and guests to serve!
bitchassness is just an issue that shouldn't be taken lightly and i don't have time for it anymore! i've been doing well to take myself away from the issue at hand but boy is it difficult when i have to encounter it day after day!
i do believe that is all i've got for now. more to come tomorrow. i'm sure i'll have a good story or two to pop off with :)
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