I am a strong believer that everything happens for a reason. we don't always have the answers right in front of us when we want them too. since my dad passed this saying is so true. don't get me wrong and think i don't do anything to try and make things happen but i don't push the issue either. Love falls into that category. there is this guy. he really likes me and while we are friends and yes hes younger, he wants all the answers to his problems now. unfortunatly its not that easy and all i really want to do is tell him what i think he should do but that isn't my place. what he should do is break up with his girlfriend, deal with whats going on now without that bourdon (s/p), and start fresh when the situation is over. but that's up to him.
we talked for a couple hours yesterday. it was so good to hear his voice and that crackly cackle of his when he's sleepy. i'm so glad that we've become such good friend. i only wish he would open up to me as much as he says. i know more than he probably thinks i do about his situation but he hasn't told me. oh well, its not really my place to be told i guess but he does say he trusts me and can really talk to me.
so my advice to anyone out there in a tight spot and not sure what to do. if you're in a relationship but not happy with who your with, don't think you have to stick with them just b/c. people that are with eachother for years breakup all the time. its no big deal. do whats best for you not everyone else.
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